Feelings may be more important to you than physical appearance, but You must understand that your body is the first thing that is visible to a man. Furthermore, by nature they are more visual and women are auditory.
For this reason, do not expect that on your first date a gentleman will arrive describing the depths of your heart, because it will never happen. The reality is that he will look at your face, your legs, your back and all the attributes that accompany you, but the difference is in the discretion and respect with which you do it.
This means that You must dress attractively, but according to the date, without showing too much, but not covering up to the neck.. Strike a balance in those details and above all convey what you really are.