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The true meaning of red flags

Maybe you have wondered what do red flags mean and here we will explain it to you so that they are very clear and you are alert.

It is one of the most used terms today, especially on social networks. But they can occur in personal relationships as well. Here we will tell you what do red flags meanhow you can detect them and what to do when they occur.

What do the red flags mean?

Literally the term red flag It means red flag and is used as a warning signal when there is a risk or danger. Red flags are placed on the beach when the waves are very high and there is a risk of entering the sea. In sports they are used to signal an alert and be vigilant in a situation. The red light on traffic lights on the streets is for stopping. A red flag is an alarm signal, always. And many times they also indicate that you have to get out of there as soon as possible.

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When you are in a relationship, the warning signs indicate that there is a risk that that person is not capable of having a healthy relationship and moving forward implies potential danger for both of you. Many times your own instinct tells you that you should be cautious. It is the typical little voice that tells you “something is not right” when you are with him. That is the first warning that there is a red flag and you must be attentive.

How to detect a network flag?

Detect a red flag It may not be easy since sometimes we have normalized certain behaviors of other people, justifying them behind “that’s just how he is” or “he will surely change over time.” This is a mistake because over time what usually happens is that the behavior worsens and nothing justifies having to accept dangerous behavior.

It is not necessary to arrive to the extreme of physical violence. Red flags can be gradual and present themselves clearly, forcefully and sometimes they escalate.

There are signs that reveal, only if you pay close attention, a man who, although he wants to appear affectionate, is actually a manipulator.Getty Images

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