Do you like being talked dirty in bed? And your partner? “Dirty talking” is the practice of having erotic or obscene conversations when having intimacy with your partner and no, it is not just when having sex.
What is dirty talk?
You can or may be talked dirty in many different settings: during foreplay or sexual intercoursein solo masturbation sessions or in long-distance relationships to promote intimacy and sexual well-being between couples.
The practice contains a key component of BDSM culture, in which the dominant partner uses dirty talk to arouse and dominate the submissive partner. Unlike what people may imagine, Dirty talking is not just limited to words, but also sounds, such as moans, that also convey an emotion.
All of this may seem quite exciting and interesting for couples, but some may freeze when it comes to saying something, due to embarrassment and all the taboos that arise around sex.
What can you say to your partner when you are in bed?
What can you say to your partner when you are in bed? Is it said before, during? The first thing you should know is that it is not about reciting a poem or just saying bad words.
The second thing is that it may be single words or sounds, description of events or fantasy creations. All this seems somewhat complex, but it is not.
The influencer Soy María a Secas, who has dedicated her account to addressing erotic topics with the perspective of an older sister in a community of more than 1.3 million followers on TikTok and who has accumulated more than 23.3 million likes on the platform, answered the question of What can I say during the delicious?, from one of his followers.
Here there is 8 phrases you can say during the delicious:
1- look how you make me
2- you turn me on a lot
3- You turn me on a lot
4- you excite me too much
5- You are my little whore (but be careful and talk to your partner first, because not everyone likes this)
6- I like how… (insert whatever they’re doing to you that you really like here)
7- I love the wetness/hardness of the situation
8- You look very sexy/very handsome up there/down there
– I had always imagined this
María stressed that it is important that you be honest to be congruent with your body’s physical reactions and for everything to make sense.
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