How to pray when someone annoys you or makes you suffer?
There are people who make us suffer. Consciously or not, intentionally or not, they give us bad times. Our harsh words, their humiliating attitudes, their despotic traits, their lack of responsibility, their infidelity, their temperamental changes, their forgetfulness and their negligence harm us…
Faced with these people, we can react by behaving how they behave with us, «because they notice», «because they see what they feel», or we can confront them, tell them the truth and stop them. We can also avoid the problem by ignoring it and leaving it to itself. However, we know that these solutions often don’t work.
We can also search for the most appropriate moment and words to show them what is happening. We can put love: «Where there is no love, put love and you will find love» (Saint John of the Cross). And in the end, we can pray for them.
Powerful prayer for a person to stop bothering you
Praying for a loved one is easy, but praying for someone who hurts us is not.
As soon as you remember that person in prayer, you would twist your stomach. And if you come to say a prayer, you will most likely ask God to send her lightning, to give her a good lesson, or to create her again.
Even if you were born into these feelings, try again. You will see that prayer will calm your heart, because in prayer the Spirit of God who is Love makes himself present, and He, Love in person, will renew your heart. And he will tell you: «But what it was about was that the other changed.» Yes, but by praying for those who make you suffer, you will realize that the first one who begins to change is you.
Praying for those who make you suffer:
You give yourself the opportunity to vent and to do it with those who are omnipotent and can remedy everything. Ventilate with God who is healthy and free. Putting in God’s hands what you cannot control and what you cannot remedy is from sensible people.
God makes you see that resentment, revenge, unforgiveness, resentment and hatred are not Christian virtues, and that rather you have to learn to be like God is with us: rich in mercy, ready to forgive me always ( even if I don’t deserve it), tolerant, patient, compassionate. «Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing» (Lk 23, 34), «Truly, I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise» (Lk 23: 43).
Recite the Our Father with coherence and sincerity and give your heavenly Father enough excuses to forgive you. «Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.»
The Holy Spirit will begin to mold your heart after yours. You will see that all the rancor you carry inside is poison, poison, vinegar, bitter life, and when you purify it and replace it with the honey of the life of Christian charity, it becomes much lighter. It is already bad enough with the suffering that the other imposes on you to amplify it with the ebb of your bitterness.
And you have no doubt that if you pray with faith and charity for those who make you suffer, God will act. Don’t expect immediate results, just wait with absolute confidence.
prayer for a person to stop bothering or bothering me
Perhaps this prayer of intercession and healing by Father Emiliano Tardifte will be useful:
Father of goodness, Father of love, I bless you, I praise you and I thank you because you gave Jesus out of love. Thank you, Father, because in the light of your Spirit we understand that He is the light, the truth and the good shepherd. That came because we have life and we have it in abundance.
Today, father, I want to introduce you to this boy. You know him by name. I present him to you, Lord, because he put his loving Father’s eyes on his life. You know his heart and you know the wounds of his history. You know everything you wanted to do and didn’t. You also know what he did or hurt him by hurting him. You know their limits, their mistakes, their sins. He knows the traumas and complexes of his life.
Today, Father, we ask you to pour out your Holy Spirit, through your love for your Son Jesus Christ, on this brother / sister, because the warmth of your healing love penetrates the most intimate part of their heart.
You who heal broken hearts and bind up wounds, heal this brother/sister, Father. Enter that heart, Lord Jesus, as you enter that house where your disciples were full of fear. You appeared among them and said «Peace to you». Enter that heart and give it your peace. Fill it with love. We know that love drives fear. Walk through his life and heal his heart.
We know, Lord, that you always do what we ask and ask you with Mary, our mother, who was at the wedding in Cana when there was no wine and you responded to her desire, turning the water into wine. . Change his heart and give him a generous heart, a kind heart, a good heart, give him a new heart.
Make the fruits of your presence bloom in this brother / sister. Give him the fruit of your Spirit which is love, peace and joy. Let the Spirit of the Beatitudes come close to him, so that he can test and search for God every day, living without complexes and without traumas, together with his spouse, together with his family, together with his brothers. the.
I thank you, father, for what you are doing in your life today. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts to heal us, set us free, break our chains and grant us freedom. Thank you, Lord, because we are temples of your Spirit and this temple cannot be destroyed because it is the House of God. We thank you, Lord, for faith. Thank you for the love you have placed in our hearts.
How great you are, Lord! Be blessed and praised, Lord.