There you go hand in hand with that man, who is undoubtedly attractive and even fun, but he has a drawback that drives you crazy: he is self-centered. Coach Jorge Lozano, a specialist in relationships, states that “high self-esteem is a big problem,” but it has three keys so that you can lower that ego and begin to value yourself as you deserve.
“He is drunk on himself, drunk on his personality, he thinks he is ‘all mine’ and thinks that the whole world revolves around him,” Lozano described this type of men.
Likewise, the ‘Hitch’ of Mexican origin indicated that One of the methods to detect if you are with someone egocentric is to look at their behavior when responding to text messages.. “It probably responds like aspirin: once every eight hours. And there you are, looking at the phone and wondering about it. But that’s over,” he said.
Three keys to lower your boyfriend’s ego and make him value you
That man must be thinking that you are hunted and arrowed, accustomed to the fact that it doesn’t matter what he does, because you will always be there. The key is that you value yourself, your time, and that this is a medicine that you are prescribing..
“Stop being so available, stop being within reach.” and you’ll see, writing: ‘Where are you? Come to my house’ (…) He’s going to want you hot and in three minutes, but you’re not a delivery pizza,” explained Jorge Lozano.
“The flesh may be weak, but don’t make it stupid,” he emphasized.
In this type, the couples coach recommends that under no circumstances should you go to bed with an egocentric person, especially if you do not know their intentions. So don’t let him roam your “amusement park.”
“If it doesn’t cost you, you don’t value it. When is he going to buy the product if you are already giving him the free sample?” says Lozano.
“Tell him: daddy, I don’t give the dog a treat if he hasn’t done the trick for me.”.
An ultimatum is a definitive decision that you require him to make, giving value to your time and minimizing his egocentrism.
“If after a while of dating (even if you are dating) he tells you: ‘I’m just confused, I don’t know what I feel’, You respond: ‘I’m not going to waste my time with someone who doesn’t know what they feel.’”advises Jorge Lozano.
To seal his tip, the former couples expert blurted out: “So many golden people feeling garbage, by garbage people who feel golden. Tell him: ‘My heels are the only thing I can put up with for pleasure.’”
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