How easy our life as a couple would be if we went back to those times where WhatsApp did not exist. The time is long gone where hanging the “not available” on Windows Live Messenger solved everything, but no, now We live attentive to the “seen” and the “last connection time”, which despite being alternatives that can be deactivated, continue to cause problems between couples.
And it seems that men (and many women) have not finished learning that through WhatsApp they are walking a tightrope full of obstacles. And even knowing all this, the genius had the idea to connect in the early morning for who knows what. Of course I don’t judge you for feeling distressed, because if it’s a recurring habit it’s better for the know-it-all to prepare a good excuse.
Mainly you need to remember, in the midst of the dream you had and the abrupt surprise, if your boyfriend was “online” or had his last connection time around 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. In case the first has happened now It is essential to know how long you saw him online: Long enough to be having a conversation or perhaps just to respond to a message?
It is important that you determine this information, since From this evidence you will be able to confront him and know why he resorted to WhatsApp at such an unusual time., not to say suspicious. If you have simply seen that he connected in the early morning, it is advisable to wait if his habit continues.
How to talk to my boyfriend and find out why he connected to WhatsApp in the early morning
A few consecutive days have passed and your partner insists on the habit. From another common phone (so as not to expose your account) you verified it, you took screenshots and now you are determined to unmask the situation.
Although it may be difficult, Your posture must be calm, firm and, above all, prepared for the possibility of virtual infidelity.. Also remember that you are not the first or the last person who has gone through this type of situation.
“In the early morning?”, “I don’t know, I would be asleep,” “Maybe someone took the phone,” these are the typical responses of a boyfriend trying to survive. But your question is the key, so if you have seen him for several days, ask him only about the most recent one and with a statement that precedes it: “I saw you connected to WhatsApp in the early morning, why?” You should formulate it in a calm, but somewhat challenging tone.as if you were tacitly adding “think carefully about what you are going to say.”
If he answers you with one of the typical ones, you can go a little further, but with caution. That is, inform him that you have seen him for several days, and in case I blurt out: “you must be wrong” your last letter is the screenshot.
This is where your boyfriend (or almost ex) has only two options: be brave and confess what is happening or throw drowning tantrums. with answers like “I can’t believe you’re spying on me”, “I swear I don’t understand”, the traditional “it’s not what it seems” or even questioning: “and what were you doing online at that time on WhatsApp?”