Have you ever felt like your world is shaking? Have you told yourself that there is no solution to your problems? Have you felt on the edge of the abyss? We all feel this way at some point, even big stars like Pamela Anderson. But, although life places us in these moments of crisis without warning, we always have room for maneuver. You can’t change the circumstance, at least not completely. But your attitude. Yes, the way you understand your world.
That’s what Pamela Anderson has learned in her many years of professional career and personal life. Because its history is marked by fame and public scrutiny, by painful falls and unexpected resurgences. And, above all, because despite all this, know that your life is yours, and only yours. Nobody can take that away from you.
The wild garden of youth
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For Pamela Anderson, life is a garden. This is how she shared it with us from her social networks, in which we see her sitting in a precise green landscape. ““I think of life as if it were a garden.”writes the actress. “You have to replant, start again and make it yours.”
His way of understanding life is powerful because it goes against everything we have been taught about how we should live it. In movies, in series, and even in literature, stories have a beginning and an end. Life, however, is not like that.
We wake up in the wild garden of youthand little by little we are pruning, planting and learning to differentiate weeds from healthy ones. We take care of that garden with care, but the work never ends. The garden is always moving, always changing. And sometimes, the initial version we dreamed of ends up not being the one we really want.
It could be the case of Pamela, who came to fame almost without seeking it. She was in her early twenties when she was discovered at a Canadian soccer game, and within months, she was already on the cover of Playboy. Soon after, the entire world knew her as CJ Parker in Baywatch. And suddenly, The shy young woman from Vancouver became a global icon.
Pruning to survive
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That dazzle must have undoubtedly been like a garden that grows out of control. And although to a very different extent, We can all live similar moments in our lives.. The luck is that we can always, as the actress says, replant, start again and make that garden something truly ours.
And for this, we have to prune. This task is never easy, because it means, first of all, learning to differentiate which branches or leaves we have to cut. It also means letting go of what excited us at the time, what we cared for to grow, what seemed vital to us.
But without pruning, we cannot take care of a garden.. It is essential to remove what is left over to let our garden breathe. And Pamela learned it in her long life, going through losses and moments of pain, until she became the peaceful version that she shows us now through her networks.
Replant and start again
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Pruning can be complicated, but after it comes silence. The space, the emptiness it leaves, can be scary. But also It opens thousands of possibilities, thousands of new options to plant. Pamela Anderson has done it many times. She retired to Cadaná to rediscover herself, she threw herself into activism for animals and sought a rhythm of life more in line with what she felt inside. Each move, each new beginning, was like taking a handful of seeds and daring to plant them in fertile soil.
Because replanting means accepting that life is not linear. That you can make mistakes, fall, recommend and that, Even in the midst of chaos, there is room for something new. Pamela was not satisfied with what fame imposed on her or with the role of “icon” that others had written for her. Because life is a garden that belongs to us. One that we can replant and change. Pamela decided to rewrite her story, plant again and give her garden its own meaning.
And we can do the same. Because replanting is not about forgetting what was experienced, but about learning to use it as fertilizer for what is to come. It is understanding that there is always another way of living, another way of looking, another place to put down roots. The eBook «Guided Meditations» with audio prepared by Bodymente experts helps you get to know yourself better.