In romantic relationships, money can get involved in different ways. Maybe you have a stingy boyfriend, who you wish would change his attitude, or they probably have different ways of managing their finances, which is valid. But a situation that you should never accept is that your partner is only with you for the “filthy” money..
The problem is that you will not always be able to realize it, perhaps because your emotions trick you or your partner is using very well-prepared techniques to get all the money he can from you.
Put your feelings aside, at least for a moment, and pay attention to the signals that an interested party may give you. No matter how much you have seductive or manipulative strategies, at some point you will make mistakes and you will detect the signs.. We show you some of the most obvious ones:
8 signs to know if your partner only loves you for the money
It is the most typical and frequent sign of someone who is only with you for the money: never intends to help you with payment let alone offer to pay. Pay attention to the moment and notice, because it is not difficult to detect it.
When he needs money, he never asks you for it as a loan nor does he suggest it as a gift he deserves, but instead he makes the excuse of a setback or something urgent so you can’t refuse.
And how did he not mention the word loan, it is simply money that you gave him to solve his “problems”.
However, here are some tips that you can take if your partner takes money from you and then does not return it.
A partner interested in your money is capable of reviewing your bank accounts, having the passwords to your applications and managing your cash. Of course, He will say that it is to take care of your finances from third parties, but he is just savoring everything he wants to spend.
Or maybe you have a mediocre job where you earn very little. And it seems incredible, but the less a person works or earns, the more interested they become in money.
This is key! Probably, if you look at your partner’s dating history, which he may have told you about, you will notice that he has only dated wealthy people. Neither were powerful people or people with enormous wealth, but with someone who resolved their whims.
Look at the restaurants they have already visited, what trips they have taken or what their ex-partners look like.. If you pay attention to the details, you will be able to find many warning signs.
It is a master move, because he will try to devalue the fact of having money, when it is what interests him most about you. Get ready to hear phrases like: «Bah! Money comes and goes”, “money doesn’t buy happiness”, “don’t get obsessed with money” or “we would all be happier if money didn’t exist”.
Of course, since it is not his money that he spends, but yours, any phrase he uses is outright shameless.
Another detail that you should appreciate. When you are with a partner interested in money, Note that you never want to spend a night at home, watching movies, preparing a romantic dinner or sharing with your family..
His only desire, always, is to go out to restaurants, nightclubs, events and thousands of times, because staying at home and ordering a pizza would be too boring. Friend, friend… Realize!
And the most blatant of signs. When you are going through financial difficulty, have debt, or are simply going through a bad economic streak, your partner is capable of magically disappearing.
Probably, tells you that they are very busy, that they have to take care of a family member, that they are convalescing, or better yet… that they think it is prudent for them to have their space.
Being with an interested partner is not a reason for “we have to talk” to solve things, no. Someone who is only with you for your money deserves absolutely nothing from you, so the most sensible decision is to end that relationship immediately.