A good lawyer seeks justice and that his client, in this case you, comes out as favored as possible. But this does not imply that he should show an aggressive attitude or strategies, because he will affirm that they are your intentions or requests.
Divorce judicial processes involve “attack” and “defense”, depending on the situation, but excessive aggressiveness is never good or satisfactory.. For example, your ex-partner may be subject to legal maintenance, but it does not mean that his or her salary should be garnished. Just because he hasn’t been the best husband doesn’t mean he’s not a good father, but there are lawyers who don’t care about that detail and go with everything.