Step 1: Recognize damage and lesson 🙏

Page and reflect. What things have you done for that person who have affected your well -being? Think of the times you left side to other important people, in what you abandoned to please it, or in the treatment and attitudes you accepted, even though you did not deserve it. Take a moment to be aware of everything you have experienced. Accepting this truth is the first step towards your release.

Step 2: Reaffirms your power and learns to say no ❌

It is time to claim your emotional space. Learn to say what you think with respect, without fear of the reactions of others. Saying «no» is an act of self -love and protection. This is the perfect time to work your internal balance and prioritize. Use the mood and self -esteem herborean candle to eliminate the fear that prevents you from changing your attitude. Allow yourself to advance with confidence and firmness.

Step 3: Take distance, break the connection ✋

It is time to create a physical and emotional space to heal. Start your emotions, feelings and the energy of that person from your life. For this, he works with San Alejo, the protector of the distances. In a diminishing room, use a prepared swimmer from San Alejo. With a sharp object, it records the name of the person you want to move away, drawing from the bottom up. Light the candle and repeat the prayer of San Alejo for 7 days in a row, visualizing how those ties that have kept you tied are dissolved.

Step 4: The definitive cut – Ritual of the scissors’ candle ✂

Take a paper and write with pencil the loop you want to cut. Put it under the scissors. Before turning it on, visualize how that person and their thoughts are completely dissolved in your life. Visualize how the loop is cut and release your being. Light the candle and let it be consumed for 10 minutes, while you follow the visualization. Then, with gratitude, it burns the paper in one of the wicks of the candle. This is the definitive closure of that stage!

Step 5: Healing and freeing the mind 🕯

Although the cut has already been done, it is possible that some thoughts or energies continue to hover your mind. If thoughts still persist towards that person, turn on a herborean candle of oblivion during the next full moon🌕 if, on the contrary, you need that person to forget you, because their presence continues to interfere in your process, use the spokesman for three moons, forget about me. Repeat the ritual as many times as you need until you feel complete release.