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Psicología del Amor

Right person, wrong time: how to know if he’s the one, but he came at the wrong time

You’ve probably heard the phrase “right person, wrong time” in multiple films and series, as well as in thousands of edits on TikTok, but is there really the right one who came into your life at the most inopportune moment, or is it just an invention of hopeless romantics?

To get the picture clearer, let’s think about Mia and Sebastian from ‘La La Land’who were the most compatible couple in cinema, until life interfered and ended up separating them, which was in their favor, as they managed to fulfill their professional dreams after breaking up, even though they gave everything to make their relationship work.

We can also take as an example Andrew and Domino from ‘Cha Cha Real Smooth’whose romance could have worked wonders due to the great chemistry they shared, but they were at different points in life, which prevented them from thriving as a couple.

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And so there are many other love stories that seemed destined to be, but for one reason or another could not happen. This raises the question of whether perhaps one of our ex-partners was the perfect person to share life if only we had known it sooner or later.

Deciphering this mystery at the moment can be very difficult, as this is when the hurricane of emotions and situations is at its maximum power. Therefore, it is not about identifying culprits on the outside or inside and holding a grudge against them forever. Instead, the idea is reflect on those signs that at the time we could not see due to the fog of chaos, and that are now clearer so that we can consider whether perhaps it is worth resuming that relationship or it is not yet time to meet again.

Here we leave you a brief guide with the key signs that you have already met your better half, but it was his season.

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He understands you like no one else

There are few people in the world capable of deactivating the social armor that accompanies us permanently. While you don’t have to be romantic, when you are, the relationship descends to a deeper level and establish a much more intense connection. Being able to talk about a thousand topics comfortably, skillfully navigate the waters of vulnerability and release emotions without care are clear parameters of a deep understanding.

They can’t escape their lives

The theory of the red thread or the invisible string It has gained great popularity because many couples tend to stay close without trying or even if they try to get away. If no matter how much you cut off all kinds of connection with that person, you always see each other again, perhaps you still need something to do together.

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