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Phrases for mothers and fathers about attachment parenting
12. «Children need time. Ours.» Carlos Gonzalez
13. «The development of intelligence is a journey in two stages and currently we make the mistake of giving more importance to the second, the stage of education, than to the first, the early years, where parental affection is very important.» Carlos Gonzalez
14. «The child needs the attention of an adult. Part of that attention must be direct, face-to-face interaction: looking into his eyes, saying things to him, smiling at him and being there for him.» Carlos Gonzalez
15. «It is not necessary to know special techniques or carry out certain activities, just be there and love your child as it comes from within.» Carlos Gonzalez
16. «The best way to stimulate intelligence in children is with our example. Behaving intelligently and respecting their intelligence. With love, with respect and with the truth ahead. Thus, the little ones will learn to behave in a similar way.» Carlos Gonzalez
17.»There are incompatible commands: ‘Be still and eat!’, ‘I asked you a question. Don’t be talkative!’” Carlos González
18. «Sometimes we lie to our children almost without realizing it. ‘If you don’t eat, you won’t grow’, when they will grow anyway. We mix values.» Carlos Gonzalez
19. «Adults need to be treated with respect and kindness, whether they are traumatized or not. And children, of course, too.» Carlos Gonzalez
20. «Children’s needs are not measured in dolls, video games, records or designer clothes. Children need contact, caresses, cuddles and kisses; later, stories, stories, walks, someone to praise their drawings and admire their exploits on the slide.» Carlos Gonzalez
21. «All children depend on their parents to develop, to learn and to survive. It is impossible to make a child dependent, because he or she already is, no matter what the parents do.» Carlos Gonzalez
22. «Help him express his feelings instead of trying to change them.» Carlos Gonzalez
23. «Understand that jealousy is as natural as love.» Carlos Gonzalez