Life sprinkles our daily lives with small magical moments that seem to be the result of chance; happy coincidences, chance reunions or synchronicities shocking that sometimes leave us breathless. They arise at the moment we need them, in response to our deepest thoughts, such as signs that tell us which direction to take.
They are synchronicities and they also include reunions full of meaning, which seem orchestrated by the universe and that fill us with amazement and gratitude for the immense generosity of life.
What is synchronicity?
He psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung created the concept of synchronicitywhich constitutes one of the main elements of his work. Synchronicities challenge our rational mind and its conception of reality; They question the role of consciousness in the physical world and raise many questions. Synchronicities are not simple coincidencesbut experiences in which the external universe seems to organize itself to respond to an internal demand.
In 1973, Anthony Hopkins was hired to star in an adaptation of the novel The girl from Petrovkaby British writer George Feifer. He visited all the London bookstores to get a copy of the work. It turned out to be impossible to find her. Finally, he headed to the subway to return home, where suddenly, he saw a book on a bench at the stop. Your title? The girl from Petrovka. Incredible!
It is necessary to refine our senses to be able to detect synchronicities
But it doesn’t all end here, as the actor explains: «Almost a year later, during filming, in Vienna, I was lucky enough to meet George Feifer himself in person. I told him how difficult it had been to find his book and how, by chance, I had found a copy on the subway. The writer replied that he didn’t have any either: he had left his last copy with a friend, who had been robbed. Then I took the one I had found out of my wallet. And it was his! The copy that he had found on the bench at the subway stop was full of notes, those of the same author.».
How do you know if it is coincidence or destiny?
Given this type of unique events, We can choose between focusing on them or letting them pass.. Even so, it is always necessary sharpen our senses to be able to detect them in our busy day, and that they do not go unnoticed. As the French chemist Pasteur said: «Chance only favors those who are well prepared».
Intuition plays an important roleand developing the capacity for attention and observation will be our first step. To do this, we must contemplate a curious way of looking throughout our days, be attentive to those clever winks waiting to be seen. In this way, our daily life goes from being conventional or predictable to being a happy space of possibilities and opportunities that will make you get out of your usual routine and direct you towards new things.
To the change the way you lookyou will also make objective reality move: everything multiplies, awakens, is in motion… «Men want to be happy and they don’t want to stop being happy.», said Freud. The search for well-being is eternal and universal, and has become very relevant in the last thirty years. Happiness has become a star topic in our Western individualistic society, as a necessary remedy in the materialistic race to which we are so often subjected.
synchronicities that give meaning
Although it is true that we have a natural aptitude towards happinesswe must decide whether to give it a chance by putting into practice our teachings, which we may have acquired from significant coincidences.
In this inner adventure, we thus access the best of ourselves, while being connected to others. To place yourself in this lasting happinessat least three elements are necessary: the pleasure, commitment and meaning. These elements do not always occur at the same time, they vary depending on the stage of our life in which we find ourselves, but they do all three are present when synchronicity takes place.
When synchronicities occur, pleasure, commitment and meaning come together
Feeling pleasure reduces stressimproves mood, motivates us to welcome the succession of small things that give color to life. Some are like gifts fallen from the sky: the unexpected visit of a friend, the melody that comes out of the neighbor’s window that brings us a message… There are as many pleasures as flowers in a garden. The extraordinary is hidden in ordinary things.
But to welcome these gifts, we have to act, take a small step: open our eyes, extend our hand, dare to demand what we need from our environment, and also from the universe. Committing also means trusting our sixth sense, intuition.whose power takes us towards the essentials of the visible and the invisible. It awakens us to a new consciousness, invites us to live our inner world more fully, and also to rediscover our roots, our connection with the universe, of which we are an integral part. Consciousness then becomes energy and gives us the impetus to live connected with the infinite power of synchronicities.
Finally, the meaning. To feel good about our lives, we must satisfy our need to make sense of things. Sense, like a compass, gives us orientation and direction, but it also brings meaning to what we experience. Often when we find ourselves in a significant coincidence, we are only able to appreciate its meaning some time later. In particular, when we must face the trials of life, it is difficult for us to positively value what we are experiencing. Searching for meaning in those difficult moments is to go for that which will repair us, that golden thread that sews wounds and reweaves favorable bonds.
Enter this fascinating game of synchronicitiesembrace the clues that carry meaning, let yourself be guided. They may lead you towards your full realization, to, perhaps, rewrite your destiny. As the writer James Redfield said, every time we follow our intuition, which makes us move forward, our personal vibration increases.
Open yourself to the unexpected
«We are magnets in an iron globe», said the philosopher Ralph Waldo Emerson. And he added: «We have the key to open all the doors. We are all inventors, and each of us embarks on a journey full of discoveries. The world is nothing but openings, opportunities and threads that you are expected to pull.».
Attention allows us to develop awareness. At work or traveling, the center of the world is wherever you are. Without you realizing it, you are at the center of a true whirlwind of information, subtle or obvious messagesephemeral, but so precious that they deserve to be identified, and kept in the treasure box.
Awaken your sixth sense
Intuitive Mindset is a Sacred Giftthe rational mentality is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and forgets the gift. Intuition is an intimate link with our personal fulfillment, as the highest level of realization of the human being, said the psychologist Abraham Maslow.
Write down the synchronicities you experience. If you keep them for years and reread them regularly, you will gain wise advice and teachings. You will identify the repetition of words, names, figures, symbols that will light your path and guide you. Let your notebook be an ally to confide in those coincidental events, which are not always extraordinary.