In a previous article we defined the types of gender violence that occur in Western countries, as a way to contrast it with the situation that women experience in Afghanistan under the Islamic laws of the Taliban. However, before defining the kind of violence that the person you are with could develop, It is likely that first you will throw some signals that you should not miss for anything in the world.. Most of them are hidden in typical phrases.
Because they do not always opt for physical or psychological aggression (at the beginning), identifying that you are being trapped by a domestic violence bubble is not easy. Unfortunately, many women end up getting used to certain behaviors that should not be accepted.so they become normalized and of course, you lose track.
Today we are going to tell you what are those verbal expressions that some violent men usually use when they are trying to drag you into their domain. Pay close attention to their attitudes and even write down the words they useso you can share them with an expert and confirm that you are being a victim of domestic violence in a silent way.
7 typical phrases of someone who is violent and that you should not miss
Oops! Not only has she yelled at you, but she is aware that she did it. Neither you nor anyone else has to understand anything through shouting, so never allow someone to raise their voice at you.
Screaming is part of emotional violence, as are insults, humiliating comments, threats and bad jokes.
Terrible! It is typical that violent men, after a “little push” or a “pinch”, as they want to describe it, then insist on a phrase like “I barely touched you”, and in the process claim that you are exaggerating.
If you are faced with a person who expresses himself in this way, run away or seek professional help.
Here we enter into excessive jealousy, which is another sign of psychological or emotional violence. With this phrase you are not only discrediting the friendship you have with someone, but is claiming that you are his property, a typical expression of a violent and possessive. Be careful.
This is a phrase in which the violent person begins to justify to himself the reason why he will later react aggressively. He is claiming that you are unfaithful to him, and no matter how much you tell him the truth, he will try to see you sow doubt and then accuse you.
Here it happens the opposite. This is a threat where It practically assures you that he will be unfaithful, and what is worse, that you will be to blame for “not valuing him.”. Infidelity is another sign of emotional violence.
This typical phrase is a continuation of “how delicate, I barely touched you.” When a violent person says that you are playing the victim, it is to minimize the severity of the aggression they have just committed, whether physical or verbal.. It happens when you start crying or become distant.
Disastrous! The “I don’t know what would happen if you leave me” implies many scenarios and believe me, they are not the best. A relationship is not based on the fact that one cannot live without the other, so for no reason do you think that what they just told you is a romantic phrase.