Have you ever heard the word “frenzy”? In romantic terms it is defined as a “violent exaltation of passion” and is what could be associated with that effusive desire you feel to bite your partner, especially in intimacy. No, don’t think that you are a cannibal or that you are literally going to eat her, it is just a peculiar gesture of affection that crosses the limits a little.
Dr. Oriana Aragón, social psychologist and researcher of communication channels based on emotional expressions, explains that “every person in love can express their love in different ways.” From there the so-called love languages are born, only on this occasion it is transferred exclusively to the physical (a bite).
According to the expert, when you bite your partner you probably do it without premeditation, to the point that perhaps you later apologize for having gone too far. “They are totally unconscious actions that seek to demonstrate the value you have towards that person, without the intention of harming them”points out Dr. Aragón.
Another definition that fits with biting your partner is “tender aggression.”like when you need to squeeze her, crush her with a hug, “eat her” with kisses or in this case give her an unexpected bite.
Sexual pleasure, fiery in bed, making love with a person you wanted so much and the explosion of an orgasm are sensations that also lead to “caressing” your partner with your teeth. There are even those who laugh or cry when reaching climax.
4 reasons why you might bite your partner
According to Dr. Oriana Aragón, The place where you bite your partner may be associated with a specific emotion of the moment. “Depending on where and how the bite is, it has an intention involved,” the psychologist reiterated. These are the most recurring reasons:
When you go a long time without seeing your partner and you longed to kiss them, it is likely that that touch with your lips will end up giving you a small bite. This is a gesture of effusive love, although it must be expressed carefully, since it is a delicate area..
When the intimate moment is pleasant and fiery, biting is almost certain to occur, from the most tender to the most “aggressive.” Although they could occur anywhere on the body, They are most common on the thighs, neck, buttocks, ears, and waist..
When words and kisses aren’t enough, you probably want to bite your partner. The chin and arms are the most chosen places in this case to express how much you love him.
When you’re both out of bed, a bite on the lips, the shoulder or perhaps the neck is a formal invitation to sexuality. It’s usually softer and a little wet, as it could be part of foreplay.
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