In a previous article we shared how to know if your boyfriend’s friend wants something more with him, in a scenario that looks more threatening. But recently you are noticing that your partner maintains active communication with a girl, who you surely know in person, and who has proven to have no bad intentions. However, nothing is written in the world of relationships and infidelities.
If your boyfriend talks to a friend every day, going straight to the complaint can be harmful to you, because you will end up looking like a toxic partner. The most convenient thing is that you maintain a cautious attitude, as if you did not give importance to the fact, but honing your sixth sense.
And when should you worry if your boyfriend talks to a friend?
Maybe the word “worry” is not the word you want to adopt, but worrying means that you are noticing behaviors that cross the boundaries of common sense. Remember that in a loving relationship there are codes, and just as you must respect your partner’s sharing with his friends, those friends also have to know what the limits are.
Along those lines, we present 3 facts that you should not allow and that undoubtedly cause concern, because your boyfriend and his friend could be overdoing it. We tell you what they are:
This means calls at any time of the day.without prior notice and as if it were an everyday occurrence. It also refers to the “good morning” and “bon appetite” messages.which in a friendship go out of context, especially if he is in a relationship with you.
Messages late at night, including early morning, due to some “emergency” are other actions that you should not allow.
In short, the ‘confidence’ They are all those gestures that are not typical of a friendship and that could disrespect (intentionally or not) your image as that boy’s partner..
It’s 6:00 in the afternoon and your boyfriend received a message from his friend or decided to send him a greeting. Up to this point, everything is going normally, but two hours later, at 8:00 at night, both continue “destroying” the WhatsApp keyboard.
This so-called “eternal conversation” logically can and has to make you uncomfortable.whether you are with him at that moment or notice that he does not respond to your messages, even though he remains ‘online’.
When you notice that they write to each other for a long time, it is time to ask them what the topic of conversation is.. If she explains that her friend has a problem (let her tell you which one) and she doesn’t know what to do to fix it, you shouldn’t worry if it only happened that day.
But if he just tells you that they are talking about various topics, then it’s time for you to set limits, because he hasn’t given you a normal response. Either your boyfriend is not giving you room or you definitely like each other.
It refers to all those words that do not fall into the category of friendship. “my love”, “honey”, “little friend”, the constant “I love you” and the awkward questions like: “Have you eaten yet?” or “How did you sleep?” They are part of the expressions that you should never allow between your boyfriend and his friend.
The correct thing is that after talking to your partner about this matter, they understand that they are making a mistake and that they should reduce interactions with that friend, especially when they are inappropriate topics or that may make you uncomfortable. Otherwise, you are free to make a decisive decision, because you don’t deserve to be seen as a fool.