Have you noticed that, despite the passage of time, your ex-boyfriend is still present in some way? Maybe you see him frequenting social networks, your friends mention him and you even ran into him by pure chance when leaving the gym or somewhere. Well, open your eyes friend, because that man still loves you and is trying to get attention.
Of course seeing him online at the same time as you on Facebook is not something important, and it is not that they attended the same party if it is a mutual friend. Don’t waste time analyzing those scenarios and Look at the seven signs that we are going to show you today, from the coach and expert in relationships, Jorge Lozano..
The speaker also recommended paying attention to the way that relationship ended, because from that end you can determine if it is an irremediably broken story or if there are reasons why your ex-boyfriend is still leaving his footprints behind yours.
If your ex boyfriend still loves you, these 7 signs prove it
If he’s posted something on Facebook or Instagram on more than one occasion and you’re wondering if it’s some kind of message to you, chances are it is.
“A man is transparent like a Ziploc bag and If he still keeps you on all his social networks, it’s for a reason.. He wants to stay in touch, he wants to stay informed,” says Jorge Lozano.
They say that children and drunk people always tell the truth, so monitor the photos where you appear alone and beautiful at a time like this.
“If that man is drunk late at night, you detect strange activity on your social networks, such as a ‘like’ on an old photo, perhaps a reaction to a story or a new follower on a platform where you didn’t have onethat man still thinks about you every day.”
For the couples expert, this is the most obvious sign, since by not being able to get you out of his mind, he will try to find out about your life and your present.
“He is going to inquire among his acquaintances, he is going to want to know how you have been. But be careful, “The man is not stupid and he knows that they are going to tell you that he has been asking.”said.
When we want to completely forget an ex-partner, the first thing we do is get rid of everything that reminds us of that person, otherwise there is something strange there.
“If you see that he starts posting photos with things that you gave him or that he can relate to, you know that the intention is to reach you. The man who keeps your gifts does not keep bad memories,» explained Lozano.
Another typical: the text message to talk about something that doesn’t interest you, but that turns out to be a “good excuse”.
“If on more than one occasion you have received a message from your ex to tell you that he has some photos, a sweatshirt or some items to return to you, that you did not remember and you did not even ask him, that is a sign that that man has not been able to forget you ”says the coach.
The traditional game of cat and mouse. Once is a coincidence, twice is not, so be careful in these scenarios because from ex to stalker there is only one step.
“An ex-boyfriend who still thinks about you will begin to appear in all the places you visit daily. If he knows which gym you go to or where you like to go to dinner, and there are so many places in the world, he will show up… with the hope of meeting you again.”
When you mourn an ex-partner and get over it, in a matter of time you won’t miss them and you will be able to greet them as if nothing had happened. But everything is different if there is still heart.
“If he was left with the thorn, that he still remembers you and perhaps thinks about you every day, He will get nervous and break out in a cold sweat just seeing you somewhere. The body does not lie,” said Jorge Lozano.