Thanks to the extensive facilities offered by technology, the probability of starting a virtual love is highbut so high, that it happens very often.
There are hundreds of websites aimed at designing long-distance relationshipswith photos, chat, videos and even suggestions to make it work properly.
The idea of having a partner who is located in another city or country has become traditional, as well as the mistakes that are made in this loving course.
Insecurities, anxiety, fear of infidelity and the limited way to innovate in this virtual relationship end up suffocating a flame that leaves us ‘offline’.
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There is a saying that “love and distance do not go hand in hand.” However, the Clarín newspaper highlighted in 2018 that “3 out of 10 couples make it work”.
Today we are going to guide you on what mistakes you should not make in a long-distance relationship. If in the end love did not win, it is also important that you come out stronger.
1) Harass your partner
We know that not being close to a person makes you feel like you don’t have the slightest control over the relationship. This encourages you to demand time and virtual presence, which ends up being a serious mistake.
Just like if I was by your side, the couple needs their space to work, share with your friends and carry out other activities. Don’t obsess about what will live attached to the phone.
2) Demonstrate insecurity
This is a consequence of the previous error. With insecurity you only transmit inability to control your emotionsas well as distrust and fear of abandonment.
At some point your partner may understand and clarify that there is no need to fall into this situation, but if the problem persists, an argument will open.
3) Accuse of infidelity
It is the biggest risk and mistake you can make in a long-distance relationship. If you accuse him without having any arguments, be prepared, because they could leave you immediately.
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4) Feel very safe
Be careful, because everything in excess is bad. Thinking that your partner will never leave your side It is a typical error in close and distant loves..
Every relationship must flourish, filled with creativity, fulfillable promises, gifts and romantic moments. From there it grows a security that must always be nourished.
5) Make decisions without sharing them
The same distance suggests that we do not need to consult our decisions with our partner, however, the opposite is true. because it conveys commitment.
It’s not about them deciding for you, but simply communicating what you are going to do and perhaps you will receive the advice you need.
6) The “we’ll see what happens”
A very uninspiring phrase. It is common that in conversations with your virtual love questions arise about the future and responding “we’ll see what happens” or “time will tell” is disappointing.
Your partner might sense that you have plans without their presence or that perhaps you have lost enthusiasm for the relationship.
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7) Do not invest your savings
For those who are in different countries, the plan to see each other in person necessarily requires an economic investment.
If you are one of those who save for the future and do not plan to use at least part of it to meet your partner, then you’re wasting both of our time.
8) The “strategic” disappearance
A very common mistake: I become an invisible person so that people miss me. Don’t you think the distance is enough to be in those?
The idea is that every day and whenever possible, the couple spend a minute to send a message, a photo or perhaps a simple email. Contact is the only thing that keeps a virtual love alive.
9) Be unfaithful
When the long-distance relationship reaches a certain period of time where it seems to stagnate, the “demon” of infidelity seeks to take over.
Just because your partner is hundreds of miles away doesn’t give you the right to cheat on them. Better focus on how to revive the dynamic of contact to prevent it from becoming monotonous.
10) Lose faith in the relationship
Even if you don’t tell your partner, they will quickly feel that you don’t believe that love will win.
It is valid that it happens due to a canceled trip, money spent or perhaps the time you are doing your thing. But In these moments of uncertainty is when there should be greater communication so that hope of meeting in person is not lost.
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