You might think that you are infallible and totally perfect. But even the most flawless signs have negative personality traits that are too frustrating to tolerate.
Think of it this way: if your zodiac sign is one of those people who tends to get angry about everything, like very emotional, you probably won’t find it easy to stay calm in a serious situation.
Instead of being someone who doesn’t let anything faze him, he may find it difficult to keep his emotions in check, such as if his partner wanted to talk to you or if he needed to meet with his boss about a situation at work.
It doesn’t make you annoying or impossible to talk to if you’re an emotional person, but it can be frustrating for everyone else if you let your nerves get the best of you.
Just because we all have personality traits that can be frustrating for people at times, doesn’t make any of us directly annoying or a pain in the neck.
It simply means that other zodiac signs who are not as well equipped find our not-so-good personality traits frustrating.
There’s always something about your star sign that makes it hard for you to want to do or say anything differently – it’s just who you are!
That said, not all signs can just shrug and blame astrology when they’re being frustrating, because that doesn’t always help the situation.
So read on to discover the most frustrating personality traits of each zodiac sign, according to astrology.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Your most frustrating personality trait, Aries, is that you’re crazy impulsive. You hardly ever think before you act or say something, and while you consider it a strength because it means you’re grabbing life by the horns, sometimes it just means you’re making trouble for everyone else.
We all know that you’re not afraid to fight someone, but sometimes it’s best to keep your mouth shut. When you are alone in a situation, you can be as impulsive as you want. After all, you are the one dealing with the consequences.
But when you’re playing by your own rules and someone else has to try to keep up with you, you end up causing yourself trouble. Learn to think before you speak next time, or at least reduce your impulsive behavior a bit.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus, you are an accumulator, both material things and emotions. You have a problem letting go of everything; It doesn’t make you sentimental, it makes you stubborn.
Instead of leaving the past in the past, you would rather bring up old things in an argument just so you can continue arguing. Help someone? No, but you don’t mind.
Your emotional buildup also rears its frustrating head when you convince yourself to feel things that no longer matter. You haven’t seen your ex in years, but you still feel like you should be mad at him because he makes you feel better.
He’s moved on and you should too. Learn to let things go and move on because it’s frustrating to see yourself living in the past.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini, your most frustrating personality trait is one that borders on downright annoying. To put it bluntly, you are superficial. If a conversation or situation isn’t about you, you probably don’t care.
It’s also frustrating when your friends ask you for advice about their lives and you end up turning it into a «lesson learned» about your own life. They understand that you want to help, but there is a way to do it without being self-centered.
And don’t think we don’t know when you’re not paying attention. Just because you say you’re listening when your best friend rants about something that’s upsetting her doesn’t mean it’s true. Those glassy eyes and empty nods just mean you can’t wait to talk about yourself again.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
There is something to be said for people who are so in touch with their emotions that is almost inspiring, but there are times when you just take it too far, Cancer. In fact, it can be frustrating knowing that you are not only emotional, but also hypersensitive.
Instead of being able to control the emotions you have in an adult way, you tend to get angry over nothing. What’s so frustrating about your sensitivity, Cancer, is that sometimes you lose your cool before you have a chance to figure things out.
If you finish or get a flat tire, you immediately start crying instead of taking a deep breath and letting the information register in your brain. You’re not amazing under pressure, which is a shame because you know exactly how to help your friends in the same situations.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
While it’s true that you have a big ego, Leo, that doesn’t always mean a bad thing. You are allowed to love yourself, and everyone should feel the way you do when you look in a mirror.
That said, there’s something a bit frustrating about letting your big head get in the way of everything else, and yes, that tends to happen quite often. The main frustration people have with you is that you can be so selfish that everything ends up being about you, whether you intend to do it on purpose or not.
You are always the one leading the conversation, you always want to talk about your problems first, and you always have an opinion on something, even if no one asks you about it. At this point, you probably haven’t figured it all out, but you can still make us roll our eyes.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo, what frustrates you so much is that you are very neurotic. You always have to be in control of everything, even things that are not under your control, and it is very difficult for you to just relax and have fun.
Slowing down a bit and setting aside all your responsibilities, even for an hour, seems like an impossible feat to you, and frankly, you’d rather not try. It’s frustrating to see this side of you for two reasons.
First, not everything needs your attention, especially when you’re trying to solve your friends’ problems. Two, everyone needs a break from time to time and it’s hard when your breaks are more like work vacations, I mean, it’s not fun, it’s not fun at all. Virgo, you should try to relax, even if it kills you.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
When we say «people pleaser», you mean «Libra». You already know this and it’s unfortunate (and frustrating) because you also know better than to let others influence everything you say and do.
You want to be popular, you want to be loved, but at what cost? Sometimes your closest friends and family look at you and barely see the real Libra.
Facing your fears is not your forte and one of your biggest fears is not being liked by everyone you meet. So when your friends tell you to grow up and let people hate you because you are who you are, instead of tricking them because you are who they want you to be, you freak out. You’re not always like this, but when you are, it’s frustrating to see you be someone you’re not.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio, you’re one of those signs whose frustrating personality trait tends to lead more to being super annoying. In a word, you are petty. While that might be annoying to some, to others, it’s more frustrating like rolling your eyes: «Scorpio doing what again?!»
He has difficulty controlling his impulses, and that often gets him into trouble. When you don’t keep your urges in check, it can lead to a lot of crazy and painful experiences… well, maybe not for you, but for everyone else involved.
This is especially true when you’re drinking because you can’t resist throwing your cocktail at someone or starting a fight at the mall. It’s all petty, but you still can’t seem to stop. And no, you can’t use the fact that you’re a Scorpio as an excuse.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius, you should be lucky you’re not Pinocchio because you tend to tell a lot of long stories. It’s not that you’re a compulsive liar, but that you really are an attention seeker. If you have to twist the truth or make your life on Instagram seem more exciting than it really is, know that something is wrong.
You love to make others envy you. There’s something about being able to recount your weekend shenanigans or a crazy trip you took five years ago to a room full of people that gets your adrenaline pumping.
It’s frustrating because you would still be loved by everyone if you just acted like yourself. But there’s something about the attraction of being able to make yourself sound like a socialite who has it all that keeps drawing you back.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn, you can be wild. And while we applaud that kind of personality, especially when it comes to things like standing up for yourself or looking for the job you really want, other times it can be really frustrating to see you act this way.
You don’t care what anyone else thinks, but your wildness comes from being a social climber. If there is a small chance to get ahead in life, he will take it, even if it means stepping on other people along the way.
You’re like a shark with tunnel vision: if there’s something you want, you’ll get it no matter what it costs. inspiring? Yes. Frustrating? Also yes, if you think about the things you do to get where you are.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius, it’s so refreshing to see a sign that stands its ground and is always willing to help people. But for some reason, you can’t just be selfless, you always have to make a big deal out of things.
Not many people know this about you, but you can be very (and secretly) dramatic. Instead of just doing your good deed and leaving, you want to make sure everyone knows you’re being nice.
Even if you try to deny this, don’t do it, because you wear your emotions on your face. If you feel like Super(wo)man or want to know how distressing something is, you wear it on your face until someone recognizes it.
You don’t always go through life just doing things, you like the audience. It’s frustrating to watch, especially when you know you don’t have to upload the proof to Instagram but do it anyway.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces, we all understand that you love to reminisce about the good old days and keep all your old stuff out of nostalgia, but it’s also frustrating when that’s all you do. You can be irritatingly sentimental and nostalgic for no reason, instead of just leaving things that don’t need to be remembered in the past.
You do not believe me? Have you ever reminded your best friend of the time you stopped talking to each other for a few months, years ago? How about keeping a teddy bear of her ex’s «just because»?
Nothing is «just because» when it comes to you: you love to hold on to things because they make you feel safe, whether they are memories, material things or people. It gets frustrating when you prefer to keep them close instead of growing.