How do you know if you are the right person to marry?

Are you thinking of getting married? We tell you exactly how to know if he is the right person to marry or not.

Although those who have not been married say otherwise, most therapists agree that a dating relationship is not the same as a marriage relationshipeven if there is coexistence.

That is why before taking that important step in your life, you should think about it very well; perhaps what you think is cute about boyfriends, is not so cute about married people and it can be a crack where love goes.

How do you know if you are the right person to marry or not? Pay attention to the signs…

You must give the YES Yes…

  1. They overcome communication difficulties together and assertively.
  2. They share ethical and moral values, and they respect each other when they disagree.
  3. They have common goals and their individual objectives are compatible.
  4. He always includes you in his plans for the future.
  5. Respect your opinion, even if you don’t agree with it.
  6. He listens to you and tries to understand your reasons and arguments.
  7. Their intimate life is satisfactory for both of them.
  8. He knows how to express his emotions with words without being dominated by them, for example, he says “I am angry”, instead of showing his anger with acts or offenses.
  9. He is with you in the bad, not just in the good.
  10. He cares about you and your well-being.

You should decline the marriage offer if…

  1. Hide debts, earnings, purchases, financial statements, etc.
  2. You have an addiction that hinders your work, family or social performance.
  3. Is violent and/or rude.
  4. jealous of you
  5. lie.
  6. He is desperate to get married and pressures or blackmails you to agree.
  7. He is unfaithful.
  8. Despise your family and/or friends.
  9. He wants to control your private life, who you talk to, what time you arrive, etc.
  10. It does not show that you are his priority, but only a means to an end, such as having children or moving up at work because he is already a married man.

Share this note on your social networks… And whoever drops the glove!

With information from: Good Therapy